When a baby dies in the womb, parents must face the biggest challenge of their life. It's almost unimaginable to go from decorating a nursery to planning a funeral for your stillborn baby. However, many grieving parents find that holding a service helps them find comfort among family and friends. Learn how you can cope during this time and give your child a loving memorial service. 

Common Stillborn Funeral Ideas

Every parent has their preferred way to mourn the loss of a baby. There is no right or wrong way, but some of the following ideas are common for this type of loss. 

Private Funeral

Some people opt for private services to reduce funeral costs, but for heartbroken parents, a private funeral allows them to cope without feeling overwhelmed by others. These services can include immediate family only and provide a safe space for everyone to grieve. 

Public Funeral

During this devastating time, you will need to lean on others for support. A public funeral gives a wide range of loved ones an opportunity to pay their respects and share condolences. 

Consider Holding a Separate Memorial Service

You're not in the right state of mind when planning a funeral for your stillborn baby. Understandably, the sudden and unexpected loss of a child prohibits your ability to think clearly and carefully plan how you want to honour them. The passing of time allows you to gather your thoughts and plan a heartfelt memorial service for your child. 

A memorial takes place after the cremation or burial. You can both mourn and celebrate your baby's life in a variety of ways. Special ideas for a stillborn memorial include:

• Making a donation in their honour
• Scattering ashes in a meaningful place
• Planting a memorial tree
  
  

You may include close family or friends at this time for comfort and support. 

Conclusion

Planning a funeral for your stillborn baby is one of the most difficult things you can go through. You may opt for a public or private funeral service or skip the formal service and plan a memorial gathering at a later date. 

No matter how you decide to mourn the loss of your child, the compassionate team at Ajax Crematorium & Visitation Centre will guide you through the planning process. Our funeral staff is always available at (289) 372-3300.