The fact is that death is a part of life, and we are all likely to face it at some point in our lives. It is an inevitable stage. We will first face it as witnesses to our friends and loved ones; ultimately, it will happen to us. Gone are the days when our cultures used to prepare us for this part of everyday life.

Today, many people seek the services of a funeral director to help them prepare and ensure any desired burial or cremation is planned well in advance. Stick along for a detailed insight into how you can prepare for the death of your loved one and how you can benefit from the services of a professional funeral director.

The Preparation Process

There are high chances you will talk with your family about persons that will be present before the death of your loved one. Some of the questions that might be asked include:

• Who does your loved one want to be present?
• Who does your loved one not want to be present?
• Are there any particulars or pets that they wish to be present?
• What kind of atmosphere do they want?
• What are their dying wishes?

These are some of the critical questions you need to find answers to help you fulfill your loved one's dying wishes.

The Dying Process

Depending on the person's illness, the dying process might be sooner or longer than expected. Regardless, you are required to prepare and ensure their last days are comfortable. Try to keep them awake by making conversation.

When the time comes, and they are no longer responsive, do not panic, call 911, or try to resuscitate your loved one. Technically, as a human, one is expected to feel grief, numbness, sadness, anger, and other emotions during this time. Ensure you inform others to help you plan for the next stage.

After Death

Note that there is no hurry in removing the body or notifying others after the death of your loved one. Gather your family members and take as long as you want to mourn, reminisce, celebrate life, or observe spiritual or cultural traditions. Ensure the body is lying flat to avoid rigor mortis. It is a process when the joints stiffen- usually occurs the first few hours after death. Based on your traditional or cultural beliefs, you can bathe the body, comb the hair, apply oils, or invite a religious leader to come.

Burial/Cremation

The last step should be to prepare for the burial of your loved one. You must work with the family members to organize and ensure they get a respectable send-off.

Whether you choose to cremate or bury your loved one, working with a professional and experienced team of funeral directors is the best way to ensure success. These professionals will help your plan and provide expert advice and opinions where necessary.

Enquire with your crematorium/burial service and provide for an option with cremation services and facilities for gathering service- all in one location.

Final Thoughts

Even with a "planned death," the passing of a loved one can stir a myriad of unanticipated emotions. However, the best thing about such cases is that they allow you time to prepare, talk, share, forgive, and make arrangements. It can be the best time to have those conversations that can help your loved one rest in peace.

Have you lost a loved one? At Ajax Crematorium and Visitation Centre, we have a wide range of cremation, funeral, and memorial services to provide your loved one with the best final send-off. Contact us today, and let us ensure you get the best services.